Love is in Da Air
The other night I was browsing the home page. This woman wrote how crazy
in love she was with her Husband and that they had been married for many years
and they still have it going on.
Then some woman commented and said. “Oh really, then he must be having
an affair if he is all into you!” Or maybe you are just delusional because it’s
BS!!
MINGA- WOW~ ~~ !!!!!
The woman that wrote the original post simply replied back and said, “
Sorry you have been hurt!”..
Now that was amazing because if it were me I would have been all over
that, soooo typical Italian!! All in da sauce.
Valentine’s Day applies such unnecessary pressure! It starts at the
office when that little 90210 type blonde assistant gets so many flowers
delivered. The office is more abundant with delivery men rather then staff.
Then to add insult to injury she yells out and says” If none of ya got flowers
I can give ya some of mine”!
Guurrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
She has a date for lunch, dinner and then a late night drink. Minga.
Then there goes your fictional mind, “what’s wrong with me?” Why don’t I have a
date? How come I got no flowers? Valentines’ Day is a commercialized, money
making pyramid scheme if ya ask me!
There are some peeps out there that have, shall we say – “FOUND IT”.
The magic and passion. The trust and mutual respect.
The continued longing after years of being together.
Learning the dance of compromise. Supporting your partners needs and
dreams.
Trust me, it can happen! This I know for a fact.
I am not trying to get all Zen and cerebral on you here but I am a
believer.
With Valentines Day lurking in the wings many things come to mind.
First off, Loves got nothing to do with Valentines Day!
Anyone can get all in the Kool-aid for ONE day – Love is maintaining
that stature all the time ~
Some Folks are tainted about Love, some folks are in Love with Love and
some Folks settle for Love.
Folks even misplace Sex for Love! Then six months later you wake up,
look at that person next to you and say, “what was I thinking!”. Ahhh, the
mistake of Lusty love…
And the next time you see a RED FLAD – believe it! Don’t keep changing
the color and pretend its friggin mauve. When someone shows you’re thier True
Colors the first time, believe it.
I have heard so many horror stories from both my Male & Female
friends. This one chick had 2 cell phones, one for Da Honey and one for da
rest!
One friend said she met this guy for coffee at the mall and he bought
his daughter? The kid walked around the book store kept herself busy and the
date was ova, she thought – awwwww he had his kid that night but really wanted
to meet me! Until she found out he was married and could not leave the house
unless da kid was with him!! You friggin MOOK..
However, not every Mista you meet is Mista Right! He or she may simply
be Mista for the Moment..
They may be the person that comes into your world to teach you some
lessons. Yes I know – how many lessons do we need.
That depends on you! If you find yourself doing the same things every
day, excepting different results, well slap yourself now…
So when u meet someone new and you think there is potential there. Plan
the moments rather than the future. It’s not based on manipulation or control
but rather a need. Controlling the situation is not about being a control freak.
It’s basically about controlling insecurities. Some people use strategies of
control to compensate for not trusting. Or (what if) yourself into a corner for
no good reason at all.
Don’t let all those old behaviors take control. Therefore, do not allow
yourself to assume without the facts. Because assumptions manipulate fears and
fears drive insecurities and before you know it, You’re in the Land of fear,
dread and anxiety. With a season pass to the resort of Disappointment! And none
of it has even happened. You are what if’ing. And then believing it!
If you were hurt, find your way home from there and don’t let what could
be a good thing pass you by because you are afraid to let them in or sabotage
it.
So if you are in Love – God Bless ya for taking a chance!~~
If you are Single – hang in because your Love will arrive shortly when
you are ready to let it happen. Trust me~!
If you are Asexual – I hope u have a pet !!!!
So get da bow and arrow and aim for da heart!! WHOOPS’ , that’s a scene from Goodfella’s.
