Being someone who knows a ting or two about Waste Management I feel that I have been able to manage most of my junk. In truth that is what you are really doing MANAGING it. As it basically stays with you but you need to stop feeding it.Think of how many times BAGGAGE has ruined relationships?Think of how many people you have met in your life and then realized you felt like you were at the luggage carousel at JFK airport still waiting for more to fall out.Well here's the bad news - you can't change it. Only they can.What ever their addiction is, it will always be with them until they do something about it.OK so now you might be thinking -ADDICTION?Yup baggage is an addiction.Addicted to bad behavior.Addicted to the past!Addicted to an old boyfriend, and EX and so on.
The funny thing with this is they never see it! Its so engrained in them that they think it's just fine. The sad thing is that they will never be able to have a giving and fulfilling life because they only focus on the addiction.
They are never present for anything else but that... Friends, Romans and Codependents let go of the people that will never love you or treat you the way you deserve to be treated.The narcissists that just want it to be all about them and have you scurry about making all good for them and their bad day or bad date and fucked up life. The ones that suck the life outta ya because all you can do is listen to them go on and on and you like a Mook sit there and say not a word.
What's the worse that can happen if ya just said - ya know - I have been listening to your shit for years and its the same thing. Did you ever think it was you? Noooooooooo!!
Because you think you are the catch of the day. And that people are mean and hurtful ONLY to you.
Stop the insanity! Let go of these controlling blood suckers that keep you in a trance and never make you pass go or collect 200 bucks....Take a deep breath and just STOP feeding them and in doing so you will find a whole new world waiting for you. Where you're not being told how imperfect you are or you'll never be like me BS.
Its a hard thing to do but if you start thinking about it you are half way there...Just think if you leave your shit by the curb once a week like the rest of the trash you might just be on you way to letting go..
