Timing is everything

Many of you are used to my notes!  Most of them have a humourous spin to them.

Well this one is different. This shows the many sides of Boom Boom.... However there is one line I am sure some of my crew will have a blast with...

Hope ya dig it..

 How often in this world do we get it right, or perhaps should I say how often do we pretend to get it right. Both statements are equally true!

Does any one really fall in love any more?

I mean falling in love as described by the Great Poets and the Tragic Greeks.

Are we  driven by the psychosis of our times?

Have you ever heard yourself say this.? Oh it’s better than nothing.

I’m so tired of being alone and the sex is incredible…

If you have than your motivation is not inspired your simply being driven by boardom,fear and lust. Could you imagine Venus the Goddess of Love laying on her feathered bed whining about her fears and spouting out – Oh bring me that! I’m sure it will do for now…

Fortunately I still believe. I believe in passion, in desire, in longing and in romance. I believe in magic for I have felt the fire. Some people look to find a reason to believe and I believe that there is a reason for everything. Timing is a part of structure and cohesiveness. A great concerto can be a disaster if played in the wrong time and a great romance might never be explored because of poor timing.

I don’t think we realize how much we use that word,”Time”. Whether for positive or negative connotation it’s a word that has less impact but greater value.

For example: I had a great time last night! Okay, it’s time for bed.

It’s time I should be leaving. If we only had more time! I wish I would have met you at another time in my life. This is bad timing. Time heals all wounds. And oh yes – God I’ve lost track of all time.

 I think that’s the most frightening….

I believe that time is a lesson.

Whether it be fragments, hours, days, months or years. Within that duration we learn about ourselves. We learn how to deal with our journey and how other factors and people can cloud our vision and our emotions. We learn that the Great Poets and the Tragic Greeks are history and their words have faded. We are now tainted … Our spontaneity is squelched and our passion is now guarded. Our view is contorted and you feel every one who enters your world has an agenda that will cause you pain. In some cases that might be true but it might be something you need to experience. You can continue to gather brick and mortar to protect your existence but you’ll never find euphoria. Your energy will only attract those that are less than you, those that will never challenge you and those that will never devastate you. A great prophylactic but no penetration.

So the next time you meet someone and your intrigued or you find they motivate you and excite you don’t use timing as your scapegoat!

Because that chance meeting might not be chance. That might be your most important moment in time. That might be your Great Poet or your Tragic Greek.

Devastation is passing timing is everything. Of course they say that time is an illusion?     

I say a little prayer

The moment I wake up before I put on my make-up, I say a little prayer for you!

Funny how lyrics can stick in your head. People always say actions speak louder than words. Well not for me!

I guess because I am a songwriter and I believe in the power of the words. Don’t get me wrong, if you are actin like an Ass I am all down with the actions part.

However words can be very powerful, enchanting and intoxicating. There are many times I have read some of the comments you Peeps leave on my FB wall and ya know what? They indeed make me smile and laugh!

Then outta the blue I can get a comment from someone who has never commented before that is like a friggin nasty gram. WTF !

The beauty about the virtual word is that you can delete their Ass…

Words can also be extremely hurtful, biting and damaging.

Hey its’ one thing using words on a comment to add your opinion or funny take on something.

But I don’t think people realize that what comes out of there mouth has repercussions.

So when dealing with friends, loved ones and family- THINK before you get all down and Italian on their ass.

Life is tough enough – it’s all about love & support and right actions and Right Words.

If you know someone is a whacked out Mook don’t engage them? Run Forest Run !!!

And since when did Facebook become a dating site? I realize that some peeps may have found a connection on here and that is indeed magic and wonderful.

However when u get emails from strangers saying that they read your profile and find you so interesting and want to get to know you more and send you their private email address. Well – I just pee in my pants.

They are not attracted to who and what you are but rather a visual of what they think you are.

A visual is nothing unless it’s packed with love and self respect.!!!

If ya go for da visual – you better pop that seat belt on cuz its gonna be a bumpy ride.

So we go back to da WORD – as described in all the songs.

“You always hurt the one you love” which is truly superfluous. But since “you’ve got a friend” you will never be alone. Even if you like to “walk on the wild side” you can still find that “magic moment”. When you have a bad day and say, “should I stay or should I go” stop and think if you have said that “time after time” and if you can’t get “satisfaction” then stop cause “the love you save may be your own”.

“That’s Life”! So take yourself somewhere “beyond the sea” and dream of all the possibilities that can be yours. Find your “Johnny Angel” or your “Sherry” and remember, “all is fair in love”. But “you can’t always get what you want”! “That’s Amore”.

As for me when I encounter peeps with “evil ways” I always remember, “I will survive”. Oh and yea – “I say a little prayer” for them. And then “ blame it on da bogie”~~

“In my life, I’ve met them all.

I got cha arrow right here

The other night I was browsing the home page. This woman wrote how crazy in love she was with her Husband and that they had been married for many years and they still have it going on.

Then some woman commented and said. “Oh really, then he must be having an affair if he is all into you!” Or maybe you are just delusional because it’s BS!!

MINGA- WOW~ ~~ !!!!!

The woman that wrote the original post simply replied back and said, “ Sorry you have been hurt!”..

Now that was amazing because if it were me I would have been all over that, soooo typical Italian!! All in da sauce.

Valentine’s Day applies such unnecessary pressure! It starts at the office when that little 90210 type blonde assistant gets so many flowers delivered. The office is more abundant with delivery men rather then staff. Then to add insult to injury she yells out and says” If none of ya got flowers I can give ya some of mine”!   Guurrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

She has a date for lunch, dinner and then a late night drink. Minga. Then there goes your fictional mind, “what’s wrong with me?” Why don’t I have a date? How come I got no flowers? Valentines’ Day is a commercialized, money making pyramid scheme if ya ask me!

There are some peeps out there that have, shall we say – “FOUND IT”.

The magic and passion. The trust and mutual respect.

The continued longing after years of being together.

Learning the dance of compromise. Supporting your partners needs and dreams.

Trust me, it can happen! This I know for a fact.

I am not trying to get all Zen and cerebral on you here but I am a believer.

With Valentines Day lurking in the wings many things come to mind.

First off, Loves got nothing to do with Valentines Day!

Anyone can get all in the Kool-aid for ONE day – Love is maintaining that stature all the time ~

Some Folks are tainted about Love, some folks are in Love with Love and some Folks settle for Love.

Folks even misplace Sex for Love! Then six months later you wake up, look at that person and say, “what was I thinking!”. Ahhh, the mistake of Lusty love…

And the next time you see a RED FLAD – believe it! Don’t keep changing the color and pretend its friggin mauve. When someone shows you’re their Rue Colors the first time, believe it.

I have heard so many horror stories from both my Male & Females friends. This one chick had 2 cell phones, one for Da Honey and one for da rest!

One friend said she met this guy for coffee at the mall and he bought his daughter? The kid walked around the book store kept herself busy and the date was ova, She thought – awwwww he had his kid that night but really wanted to meet me! Until she found out he was married and could not leave the house unless da kid was with him!! You friggin MOOK..

However, not every Mista you meet is Mista Right! He or she may simply be Mista for the Moment..

They may be the person that comes into your world to teach you some lessons. Yes I know – how many lessons do we need.

That depends on you! If you find yourself doing the same things every day, excepting different results, well slap yourself now…

So when u meet someone new and you think there is potential there. Plan the moments rather than the future. It’s not based on manipulation or control but rather a need. Controlling the situation is not about being a control freak. It’s basically about controlling insecurities. Some people use strategies of control to compensate for not trusting. Or (what if) yourself into a corner for no good reason at all.

Don’t let all those old behaviors take control. Therefore, do not allow yourself to assume without the facts. Because assumptions manipulate fears and fears drive insecurities and before you know it, You’re in the Land of fear, dread and anxiety. With a season pass to the resort of Disappointment! And none of it has even happened. You are what if’ing. And then believing it!

If you were hurt, find you way home from there and don’t let what could be a good thing pass you by because you are afraid to let them in or sabotage it.

So if you are in Love – God Bless ya for taking a chance!~~

If you are Single – hang in because your Love will arrive shortly when you are ready to let it happen. Trust me~!

If you are Asexual – I hope u have a pet !!!!

So get da bow and arrow and aim for da heart!!  WHOOPS’ , that’s a scene from Goodfella’s.